Owning a Business with PTSD Is Harder Than Herding Cats at a Dog Convention
Business ownership is supposed to feel like freedom, right? You’re the captain of your own ship. You set the course, steer the wheel, and, theoretically, sip metaphorical sangrias as you coast into success. But throw post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) into the mix, and suddenly, that ship’s rocking so much it feels like trying to surf during a hurricane. If PTSD is sitting snugly in the captain’s chair, you’re not alone.
June is PTSD Awareness Month, and while conversations often lean toward veterans or trauma survivors, what doesn’t get talked about enough is how PTSD stealthily infiltrates the world of business. Sure, the symptoms don’t show up with “I’m here to ruin everything” pinned to their bills, but their impact? Oh, it’s like that squeaky shopping cart wheel you can’t escape. You might ignore it for a while, but sooner or later, it’ll crash into an aisle of overpriced almond butter.
Recognizing PTSD in your life is its own daunting trek, but understanding its effect on your business is another beast entirely. This subject is especially close to my heart, as I am dealing with PTSD myself and know many entrepreneurs who do, too. So, fellow entrepreneurs. We’re going to walk through three game-changing insights to reclaim control and park that annoying shopping cart wheel for good, or at least for long enough to gain some strength to keep fighting the good fight.

The Brain Fog Paradox: When PTSD Messes with Decision-Making
PTSD doesn’t manifest with a “Warning! Your processing speed has slowed to dial-up internet” pop-up, but boy, it should. Decision-making under its shadow is like trying to select one amazing-looking cupcake when all the options feel glazed with overwhelming identical dread.
The Symptom Soup
Trauma rewires your brain, particularly the prefrontal cortex (think of it as HQ for logical thought). This can lead to hyper-responsiveness, anxiety, or emotional shut-downs, which wreak havoc on decisions meant to be baseline rational (Pineles et al., 2017). Now, toss in entrepreneurial dilemmas, like whether to hire that expensive consultant or launch a doomed TikTok campaign. Sprinkle in self-doubt. Et voilà! You’ve got the Stress Croquembouche. This stress starts a chain reaction that makes you even more on edge, more stressed, more activated, and thus more foggy, and the cycle continues until you stare at the wall for hours, trying to muster the energy to breathe correctly, let alone make any decisions.
Actionable Advice: Simplify your choices. Create a decision-making triage system. Break down complex dilemmas into a sweet little menu of yes or no answers. Instead of, “Should I take this huge business loan that involves twenty pages of legal jargon?” go with, “Is this worth my long-term peace of mind?” Oh, and set deadlines. Overthinking loves an open-ended timeline—it’s like a buffet for doubt.

Networking: How the Fear of Connection Can Sabotage Growth
Networking for business owners is like flossing. It’s drilled into you that it’s necessary, but try doing it under the grip of PTSD-induced hypervigilance. Striking up conversations? Small talk with strangers? Please. It feels about as appealing as walking on Lego bricks for an hour straight.
Why Trauma Puts Networking in the No-Fly Zone
PTSD sensitivity makes social settings feel overwhelming. Flashbacks and anxiety aren’t known for scheduling their appearances conveniently. You freeze up, unsure whether to flee mid-pitch or blurt out something about the weather. Even Zoom meetings can feel hazardous; there’s too much unpredictability and too many microphones to manage (Weathers et al., 2018).
Actionable Advice: Start small! Find your wingperson if in-person settings still feel like dodging emotional landmines. Online groups and forums related to your field can also be introvert-approved vehicles for genuine connections. Remember, it’s about quality, not quantity. And remember to create a safe retreat zone for when it all becomes too much. Retreat for a few breaths, a facewash or a drink of water is not quitting; it’s regrouping. Politely excuse yourself and eat snacks in the corner. You got it.

Burnout 2.0: Mastering the Art of Boundaries
Here’s the rub about being both a business leader and a PTSD warrior. The “you can sleep when you’re dead” entrepreneurial mantra isn’t just toxic. For trauma survivors, it’s combustible. With PTSD, your stress response is already set to DEFCON 5, and running on fumes will flip you into burnout faster than your Wi-Fi disconnects during an important video call.
The Never-Ending Cycle of Overcommitment
Trauma loves to pull strings, often lulling you into overworking as a way to avoid confronting buried emotions. It becomes a vicious loop of exhaustive effort thinly plastering over internal chaos (Stevens et al., 2020). Meanwhile, your business suffers because you’re running it while running yourself ragged. The result? A work-life salad that’s mostly soggy lettuce with no dressing.
Actionable Advice: Establish sacred boundaries. Google Calendar can be a life preserver here. Block off guilt-free personal time and protect it as if it’s Beyoncé’s concert tickets at half price. Side-eye your overcommitment tendencies (because they will try you), and remind yourself that stepping back creates opportunities, not failures. And please, PLEASE, for the love of all that’s spreadable, eliminate from your life people who believe that you should run 24/7 and all your problems will be solved if you just “tried harder.” Seriously, those are detrimental to your sanity.

Final Thought: Your Trauma Doesn’t Define Your Business Success. Or You.
While PTSD is a long-term battle, it doesn’t have to pilot your entrepreneurial ship into stormy seas forever. Acknowledge its presence, sure, but don’t give it control over the compass. I don’t mean it harshly; don’t treat PTSD as your enemy. It’s your body’s way of protecting you because you’ve already gone through enough (and maybe too stubborn to understand it and heal otherwise). But you would not let your inner skeptic scare you into inaction; don’t let PTSD either. Self-awareness, clarity, and boundaries aren’t just wellness buzzwords; they are your not-so-secret conversion hacks for channelling resilience into profitability.
The big take-home? Healing takes time, a lot of it. But, you forced being a human (and not an overstressed machine) will only do good for you and the world. No one is perfect. Some have diabetes, some don’t have limbs, and we got this one. Everyone is dealing with something, and it never stopped you before. Don’t punch yourself for not being able to abuse your body and soul the way the “youngsters” do. Instead, aim for small victories. Recognizing the seriousness of your symptoms. Sending emails without shaking hands. Negotiating deals without imposter syndrome spamming your inbox. With each step forward, you’ll learn that your “hurricane” can also carry its own wind of change. And trust me, somewhere within that storm, clarity awaits.
References
- Pineles, S. L., Arditte Hall, K. A., & Resick, P. A. (2017). Trauma reactivity and decision making in PTSD. Journal of Abnormal Psychology, 126(4), 448-457.
- Weathers, F. W., Marx, B. P., & Keane, T. M. (2018). PTSD and interpersonal functioning. Annual Review of Clinical Psychology, 14, 269–283.
- Stevens, J. S., Jovanovic, T., & Fani, N. (2020). Interventions for stress-related disorders using boundary-setting techniques. Stress Management Journal, 83(2), 321–345.

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